Selfless love!!!

Ok, second post in a week not bad..had lot of leisure time this week which wasn't put to anything productive :) . Since i took a week off from my work I decided not to touch my laptop and stay away from Internet for a week..but i think i am too addicted to stay away from it. Read some awesome blogs, went on shopping spree(although i hate it), took my family out on dinner twice along with a movie. Tomorrow planning to go on a picnic with my whole khaandaan. Monday will end my good times at home..and will be heading back to chennai, back to work :(

Blogging..Only reason i turned to blogging was to write my heart out and make some great friends..
this is the true reflection of what i am, what i feel and what i think..which is why it says "This is me.." so my posts could get bit personal at times..Can't help.
I wanted to write today on something which was due from long. My parents..my mom and dad. Everyone love their parents and think them as the best among the best. I am also lucky to have blessed with my mom and dad. Perfect in every sense.There are some things which you cannot express in words to your parents..things which you feel from your heart..

I sometimes wonder how can parents love their children unconditionally? Their love is pure, not based on how you look, what you do..always concerned about you, your well being..willing to make sacrifices and compromises to make you and your life better. Your happiness makes them forget their worries and make them happy. When you are upset or sad..they get more sad and constantly try to make things better for you.

We always look upto our parents and get their qualities directly or indirectly. I learnt the importance of hard work, patience and perseverance from my father. He has seen tough times in his early days which i think has made him strong and now hold the qualities which i admire most. I respect him most. When he is out on tour, his presence is missed badly..and when he gets back home..a sense of relief can be sensed amongst us. Dad..i cannot say this to you directly..but i love you..take care of yourself as you are very precious for us.

My mom..she compliments my dad perfectly. She is extremely kind hearted, loving, vocal about what she feels, a great cook :). She is always worried about her children's health and proposes home made techniques to help us survive :) She is smart, pays attention to details which is quite unbelievable. Each time when i come home on Holidays she has list of things to give to me to carry back, prepares my favorite dishes to make sure i gain lot of weight :) which kinda compensates for my home-food deprived stay away from home. Stays till late in night and chats on all the topics, my investment plans, job, friends....and the list goes on..She is someone who is so important that i cannot imagine my home without her..even a single day..i remember once she had to be admitted to hospital few years back..and our house was incomplete..we were incomplete.
My mom and dad never questioned me ever since i turned 16. They gave me the complete freedom to act on my own will. My school was fees was quite high as it was among the best schools in Indore, but they never complained. They wanted to provide me best of the best education possible. Gave me everything i desired for. I don't remember even a single instance where i heard a NO from them. When i got into Engineering college, the fees was reasonably high but they never gave a second thought. I spent lot of money during my college but they never resisted..There are scores of instances which i can quote..

Now me and my brother by their grace and hardwork are well settled in our professions. My wish now is to ask my dad and mom to relax and let us serve them. Let them enjoy the life without worrying about anything. This is another reason why i want to work in a location closer to Indore. My long term wish is to take my family out on long holiday preferrably outside India. The most beautiful place which i have seen in my life is Scotland..may be i would take them there one day..
I don't think i have enough words to write more on them..but just wanna thank god for making me the lucky i am..thank my mom and dad for who they are..