Hate love storys?? Give a thought...

Ok, This is not inspired by Imran Khan-Sonam Kapoor flick..which sadly is a mediocre movie with good songs. Anyway i am not reviewing the movie now, this would take a different post altogether ;).
I dont think i hate love storys, i like them, i have liked them, lived them but my past isn't very satisfying and sometimes i think is it my cup of tea even???
When your past relationship doesn't workout, and after sometime (may be yrs depending on the emotion levels) when you are bit over it you tend to analyse why it didnt't work after all. Biased analysis wouldn't help which generally takes place every moment after the so called "break up". I am well passed the biased and unbaised stage now. Its been over 2 years now, i am still in touch with her as a good friend and she is married, happily i wish. Coming back to unbiased analysis, i think it is most important since it gives you points to ponder on which you otherwise would never care to give a thought. You understand your strengths, your comfort zone and how well you handle the situation when you are no more into it. You get the situations where you should not have taken that extreme step but would have given another chance. 99.99% relationships do not end on a sweet/positive note. There are always grudges, negative feelings no matter still how much you love that person. But sometime down the road you mature over it and analyse. I have analysed time and again, now there is no reason to think about it but when you are lonely and likely to go in marriage bond in coming months, these thoughts cross again. May be it is like " Once bitten twice shy" kind of mind frame for me where i do not want to screw up things because of my past mistakes.
I can very well relate this situation with my job where the code review result isnt very good and you are asked to review and fix again. No matter how annoying it is, but you get to learn a lot from this and see your mistakes clearly. Same as happened to me and i can say i have never repeated the same mistakes again (although made new ones ;-)......)
Ok, i think i have wrote enough on this. Beautiful sunday evening, time to go out. Wanting to buy a pair of jeans from quite some time now, hopefully tonight is the night.
Until next time..
Ciao,
Rohan